Tuesday, August 28, 2007

How it all began

25 years ago today, my parents packed up their brand-new house and, with a 10-month-old (me) in tow and another one (my sister) on the way, moved from Mexico City to San Diego, California.

Apparently, I wasn't very happy with that decision...

(In the Mexico City airport, looking very worried.)

Things in California didn't turn out the way they'd planned -- they never do, do they? -- and for a time it seemed their decision had been ill-advised indeed. They'd left a very good life, careers, friends and family behind, and suddenly their 'adventure' had left them stranded and alone.
(Plus, if you'd asked me at the time I would have told you that Gerber baby food bottled in Mexico tasted a lot better than the American kind. Seriously.) To make matters worse, Mexico's then-president began playing havoc with the economy, so going back was no longer an attractive option.

Fortunately, life has a funny way of working out. It took a little while, but we set up a new life in Houston and surrounded ourselves with a kind of surrogate family, friends who were in many cases immigrants themselves. The United States has been very good to us -- but our roots and hearts still were, remain and will always be in Mexico.

(A happier me playing with my Abuelo.)

'Cualquier contacto con el pueblo mexicano, así sea fugaz, muestra que bajo las formas occidentales laten todavía las antiguas creencias y costumbres...'
--Octavio Paz, 'El Laberinto de la Soledad'

8 comments:

Derek said...

That's an interesting story ... I'm glad it worked out for you. Would be interested in hearing more...

Josh said...

Viva Mexico!

And cute kid pictures. :)

Gaz said...

Hiya,

Oooh. I just found that comment you left on my page (that gecko-in-coffee post). For some reason it thought it might have been spam so it got stuck in a moderation queue, sorry. Anyway, cool blog! I'll subscribe to the RSS! :)

Hope all is well!

~Gareth

JustRun said...

Adorable photos!

I think part of our hearts are always where ever we began.

stephruns said...

You can never forget where you're coming from, even if you start to love a country, there's something inside of us that will always remind us. Hard explain, nope.

Did you ever go back to Mexico?

Amy said...

Happy anniversary to you and your parents! What courage they must have had to begin an adventure in a new place and with a little one. Change can be so hard!

I have now been on my own longer than I lived with my parents (yes, I am old), but still crave and feel a sense of belonging to my hometown - I don't think that feeling ever fades.

Quinto Sol said...

What a beautiful baby!!!

I too came to the US in the early 80s, sunny California as well... and I also have Octavio's book... but never finished reading it... must remind self to find it and read it once and for all.

Tom said...

I enjoy following your posts and you have a very interesting story.

Your parents' decisions and strength made such a difference in the life you enjoy today, and yet it's wonderful you haven't forgotten your roots.

Thanks.